Stop Swiping.
Start Connecting.
TANDE's AI coach helps you have better conversations, detect when things are cooling off, and build genuine relationships.
Dating Apps Are Broken
Traditional dating apps leave you swiping endlessly with no real guidance. There's a better way.
The Old Way
Endless Swiping
Hours wasted, few real connections
Ghosting Epidemic
Conversations die without warning
Awkward Silences
Never know what to say next
Mixed Signals
Can't tell if they're into you
The TANDE Way
AI Conversation Coach
Perfect response suggestions, always
Ghosting Detection
Know when to change tactics
Never Stuck
3 message styles for any moment
Relationship Tracking
Know exactly where you stand
Everything You Need to Date Smarter
AI-powered tools that help you have better conversations and build genuine connections.
AI Conversation Coach
Never Run Out of Things to Say
Our AI analyzes your conversation and suggests the perfect response — playful, warm, or direct. It's like having a dating coach in your pocket, available 24/7.
How TANDE Works
Four simple steps to better conversations and real connections.
Take the Vibe Test
2-minute personality quiz that helps us understand your communication style, relationship goals, and what you're looking for.
Match on Vibes
See compatibility scores before you swipe. Match with people who share your energy and communication preferences — not just looks.
Chat with AI Support
Never feel stuck. Our AI coach suggests the perfect message, detects when conversations cool off, and helps you build genuine connections.
Meet IRL
When you're ready, TANDE suggests the perfect date based on both your personalities. We'll even give you conversation topics.
Free to download. No credit card required.
Dating, Reimagined
We're building the future of dating — where AI helps you connect authentically, not just swipe endlessly.
Better Conversations
AI-powered suggestions help you say the right thing at the right time. No more awkward silences.
Track Your Progress
Watch your conversation skills improve with real-time feedback and relationship stage tracking.
Genuine Connections
Focus on quality over quantity. Build real relationships, not just collect matches.
Privacy First
Your conversations stay private. We use AI to help you, not to exploit your data.
Always Available
24/7 AI coaching whenever you need it. Get help crafting the perfect message anytime.
Personalized to You
Choose your style — playful, warm, or direct. The AI adapts to sound like the best version of you.
Join our beta and help shape the future of dating.
Unlock Your Full Potential
Free is great. Plus is game-changing. Get unlimited AI suggestions and premium features.
Feature Comparison
TANDE Plus
Monthly Plan
~$0.83/day
- Unlimited AI message suggestions
- Unlimited profile reveals
- Advanced vibe analytics
- AI date planner
- Priority matching
Cancel anytime. No commitment required.
TANDE Free
Get started for free
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about TANDE.
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Your Dating Life?
Be among the first to experience smarter dating. Download TANDE free and start having better conversations today.